Yes I have felt it was difficult to confirm others when I disagree with them. I’m really stubborn so when someone disagrees with me in some way I just don’t deal with him or her. I know this is not the best way to handle disagreements. However after reading chapter eight I have found a better way to solve my disagreements with others. Yes I can distinguish between recognition, acknowledgement, and endorsement. Recognition is when you recognize the problem. Instead of just keeping the disagreement in acknowledge it to him or her. Depending on the outcome you can then either choose to accept the disagreement or resolve it. I think now I have a better understanding of confirming others and just accepting particular ideas. An example could be when you and a close friend have a discussion about what movie to go to. She insists on going to one movie but you want another. Assert your self and acknowledge how you feel. After this you could choose which movie to go to the one she wants or you by endorsing the situation. Even though this is not a difficult situation it’s a simple way to think about this concept.
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